Sorry to hear about your shifting problem. That is a fairly common issue with this transmission as it ages. If the ATX fluid looks and smells fine you could try a shift modifier or do a fluid drain, look at the pan, change the filter and put fresh Dex III in and see if it improves. Good luck.
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